Oh gosh, I’ve scarred them for life!
February 28th, 2005In the process of tracking down various family and family friends around my family’s native area of Xiamen (厦门), we were introduced to other family friends I never knew we had here. One of these people turned out to be Yang Lai-Yun, resident of Xiamen. She’s the mother of two daughters our age and also happens to be an English Language teacher at Xiamen’s No. 1 high school (No. 1 means that it is the best high school in Xiamen).
We were invited over to her home for dinner two nights ago by her eldest daughter–who were we to refuse a dinner invitation by the locals?
Her house made the 12th or 13th home I’ve been invited into. John and I have really enjoyed each visit–each has revealed a different style of Chinese living, ranging from the old (300+ years) to modern. At most of the houses in China, we’ve been fed in the traditional Chinese style, also known by me as the, There Is No Such Thing As A Full Stomach. In other words, we’ve been stuffed solid through all the cities we’ve been in. Other than the feeling of being overloaded, it’s not a bad way to travel and sample the local homestyle cuisine.
During our dinner with Yang Lai-Yun and her family at her beautiful flat two days ago, she invited us to come to her school the next day and she would show us around. Sweet!! John and I have made a point about visiting schools in various cities and countries.
I can tell you that the high schools here are gigantic. Xiamen’s No. 1 High School is on a 93 acre plot and is currently expanding onto another 93 acres. They’re well equiped with laboratories and computers (running Windows 95) with what seems like an excellent teaching staff. English is a required subject. There’s about 3000 students which start school at 7:30a and leave at 5:30p. Senior 3 students (last year of high school) are there until 10p studying for their college examinations. It’s a very different education system with a very high bar!
The climax of our tour was achieved when Yang Lai-Yun led us into her classroom and put us in front of 56 students!! This was a bit of a surprise, but we were both really happy to meet the local students (y’all know how much I love getting in front of people and talking). At first we gingerly walked among the students, where some got the courage to ask us some questions. One of the students asked me about “society in America.” Tough question! I tried to give an answer that didn’t made China look poorly or make America look that great–which is truly what I believe. There are a lot of things in China that our society could take a lesson or two from and vice-versa. Hope it didn’t go over his head.
The electronic bell rang over the loudspeaker and we took up positions on the podium at the head of the class. Yang Lai-Yun encouraged us to speak a few words, but what could we possibly talk about? Instead I encouraged the students to ask us questions instead.
Amidst a lot of laughter and a very captive audience, here’s some of the questions we got:
- How’s the food in America?
- What’s life like in an American High School?
- What does it take to get into an American University?
- Are we considered poor by US standards?
- Is knowing only a little English make it difficult to work with other people?
- How do you suggest improving our English?
- Do you go often to NBA games?
- Can you sing a song?
I’m afraid that last one we had to decline (我不喜欢!), but John thew back the question and asked the student if he could sing a song instead! After a lot of laughter and some encouragement from Yang Lai-Lun, one of the girls volunteered to sing(!). She sang the song the goes, “I’m a big big girl in a big big world…”, which seems to be popular with the karoke crowd here. I was grinning from ear-to-ear–it was good!
Before leaving, we took pictures with the class (that’s going in the scrapbook!) and the class gave us a very enthusiastic “BYE-BYE!” when we left.
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So much FUN! What a way to see a Chinese high school!
